love... ethereal

for some people:
love is being possessive.. love is being total 'lattu' over a person.. making u blind.. you just can't dislike anything in the person you love.. the person you love means the world to you and the whole world means nothing.. love is like addiction.. difficult, almost impossible, to quit..

but we don't quite identify with such a kind of love..

for us:
love has a kind of purity, innocence to it.. it is ethereal.. love is being selfless..
love is sacrificing your joys for the person u love.. its like 'tum khush to main bhe khush'.. love is love.. there's nothing that can compare to it.. love is accepting and respecting a person for what ever she/he is, and not trying to change the person..

we quite like this idea of love...but what we really hate is people committing suicide and doing so saying they lost their love leaving a suicide note...i personally think they do it because they can't accept that they have been rejected...it especially happens with boys who cant accept being ditched by a girl and they are the same guys who go on ditching an unending number of girls...and they just can't accept that they aren't liked by the people they have proposed...either they commit suicide or kill the person whom they say they love...love is not for these silly people who are cowards...love is for the brave because you gonna face hardships when in love...no good thing come easy...the best thing never come cheap, u have to pay a huge price for it, sacrifice a lot for it...but sadly nowadays for people love has just become a game...its like people asking each other "hey!! bhai gf bani kya??", "tujhe koi milli kya" its like where ever you go u need a gf/bf to flaunt...it kind of becomes a fashion statement...u are considered uncool if you have none..."hey!! yeh to akela hai koi gf nahi iski"...is this what you call love??...i don't!!...same is true for many a girl as well...they want a bf to drop them home pick them up in some bike or a car...call them up daily...pay there cell phone bill...go shopping with them...and do all the stupid kind of stuff...and after a few days its said "hey!! dude u r a bore, just give me some air"...wow!! who would want that...in today's world actually there are just a few who value love...its just like having a gf/bf for them n after sometime tata/bye...love is not that...love must be pure...it must be simple...and love shouldn't be judged...sometimes love remains hidden and its better for it to remain so...love may work wonders for some but may also destroy your life...love stories are not those which have a happy ending because invariably they do so, most of the time you have to sacrifice your love for their better so they could be happy but at the same time you must also be thinking if they love you then they wont be any happier if you go away...

Love...the soul connector...

love is like craving, craving for the one you love like a lost infant child wants his/her mother...its an unquenchable thirst.. once it happens...you never want to lose it...you want it more and more...your soul longs for your loved one...its about those nameless cries, those avid smiles, sleepless nights, blurred wandering, unaware awakening those outstanding days...its a burning feeling, undefinable happiness, its about forgetting oneself and praying like a child for your loved one...its rational yet irrational affection and warmth for the one you loved...its about tears with grins...grins with tears...its about questions, exploration and quest for the answers...love is rain of ocean...just continues to go on and on...with all its tides surprises you every now and then...the more you get in it the more you feel about it...keeps changing ways...there comes hardships but love stays forever n forever...even after we leave this material world because its a connection of one's soul...

Love...the Heavenly feeling....

well love is something that makes you sad when you happy and makes you happy when you sad...when your in love there's never a dull moment...you find life in lifeless object and life seems lifeless to u...you think you have everything even when you have nothing...you may say something but you mean something else...its just like being drunk...its like heavenly feeling...you feel like God has presented to you a truly wonderful gift indeed...sometimes its like being tickled on the chest a feeling in your heart, like a blazing electric shock extending to every hair...like a process of metamorphosis desiring vibrant butterflies(no cocoons, no caterpillar) for the garden of love...its like a disease smoldering every bit of you...tearing apart each cell in you...scratching every sense of your soul...a powerful bond coming with no rational warranty or having any backing of physical bonds...its like being in a maze which keeps on getting stronger every minute every second...you look everywhere but there's no way to go but just be in love forever...the self-denials, crumbles, lost battles with ego, self-wows, very intimate indeed...flowing like a river retaining its zeal flowing through rocks, plains, passing through desserts, facing changing weather and terrains...it goes on and on and on...

Love...a possession?...

love is no possession but needs to be valued more den any possession tat u have more than even your own life...tats been found true in many cases...how many people do you actually see being married to people whom they call they love...u just see people saying "wow he is rich he has a car, i want him as my bf" or "wow! dude she's hot, smoking, she must be my gf"...love is not for those people who want it for fun but for those who find fun in it...they say love can climb mountains...it doesn't mean that you have to climb mount everest for your love it means you should be ready to do anything for your love...i mean your relationship with your partner must be of great trust...and i mean great trust...trust is the most important thing in this world and specially in a relationship and more so if its about love...you should trust your partner for everything in your life and your partner must be trustworthy enough that he/she doesn't ask you of anything that you can't give...because if your partner truly loves you he won't ask you to do anything that's against your wishes and if that happens and he/she tries to misuse your trust then he/she doesn't love you and just having fun for the sake of having it...love is no fun but life becomes fun when your in love...your view towards life changes and you start to find everything around u to be great n i mean great(i use the word great only for things i believe it must be used, i seldom use it)...its like you are the luckiest person on earth...so love shouldn't be like "mujhe bhi ek gf/bf chahiye"...because love is divine...it comes straight from the heart, from your soul...so don't hurt your soul pretending love or make fun of someone else's feelings.. if not for anyone else, then at the least for your conscience it should never be done...he/she may forgive you but your conscience wont(only if your a good human being)...you won't be able to face yourself...

Love...the contradictions...

true love is unconditional..

is love unconditional as said above??...we have other ideas...just think about this...

suppose there is a boy or a girl...now he loves his parents very much why does he/she do so?...because they are his/her parents or he/she would have loved these two people even if they were just people sitting on streets...

you only love your parents because they are your parents...and why they love u because you are their part...they see themselves in you...they see in you, their dreams...

love is not always unconditional...its ways are unconditional though...

you love your bro/sis because they your bro/sis...

like if u love a girl/boy...why would you do so?...because you like something in that person and that wont change if he/she loses some of his/her most valuable and important possessions not necessarily dealing with any property i mean even physically or mentally or caste wise...be it anything your love won't change...same is true about your friends...in this case love is unconditional...

thats why we said what ever you say about love you will find its contradiction...love is the most vast subject in the world...yet its not thought in schools or colleges...because it comes from within...u just don't know what love is...even helping somebody is love...its just as i said undescribable...its like a mystery which can't be solved...

Love...can it be defined?...

love is something which has no definition which no one can understand you never know what love truly is..its definition is always incomplete...what ever you say doesn't truly describe it...its something with no meaning yet confusing...

love is like a harmonium...the music may go off but the strings remain...love is winning in your defeat...love is like a virus...a Trojan horse...it just spreads in all your veins n blood vessels...and you don't think of anything else...love is being mad...love is not realizing what your are doing...love is doing silly things...love is doing excellent things...love is just a feeling...love is the biggest ever thing...love is the best thing to have happened...its the worst thing to have happened...its like beer the more you drink it the more intoxicating it becomes the more you want it...its that seductress thing that seduces even the best of people...its like having sex everyone wants it but just shy away talking about it...love is everything...and love is nothing...u just cant describe love...its a hell of a task...

Love...a quote from the BIble...

“ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. ”