love... ethereal

for some people:
love is being possessive.. love is being total 'lattu' over a person.. making u blind.. you just can't dislike anything in the person you love.. the person you love means the world to you and the whole world means nothing.. love is like addiction.. difficult, almost impossible, to quit..

but we don't quite identify with such a kind of love..

for us:
love has a kind of purity, innocence to it.. it is ethereal.. love is being selfless..
love is sacrificing your joys for the person u love.. its like 'tum khush to main bhe khush'.. love is love.. there's nothing that can compare to it.. love is accepting and respecting a person for what ever she/he is, and not trying to change the person..

we quite like this idea of love...but what we really hate is people committing suicide and doing so saying they lost their love leaving a suicide note...i personally think they do it because they can't accept that they have been rejected...it especially happens with boys who cant accept being ditched by a girl and they are the same guys who go on ditching an unending number of girls...and they just can't accept that they aren't liked by the people they have proposed...either they commit suicide or kill the person whom they say they love...love is not for these silly people who are cowards...love is for the brave because you gonna face hardships when in love...no good thing come easy...the best thing never come cheap, u have to pay a huge price for it, sacrifice a lot for it...but sadly nowadays for people love has just become a game...its like people asking each other "hey!! bhai gf bani kya??", "tujhe koi milli kya" its like where ever you go u need a gf/bf to flaunt...it kind of becomes a fashion statement...u are considered uncool if you have none..."hey!! yeh to akela hai koi gf nahi iski"...is this what you call love??...i don't!!...same is true for many a girl as well...they want a bf to drop them home pick them up in some bike or a car...call them up daily...pay there cell phone bill...go shopping with them...and do all the stupid kind of stuff...and after a few days its said "hey!! dude u r a bore, just give me some air"...wow!! who would want that...in today's world actually there are just a few who value love...its just like having a gf/bf for them n after sometime tata/bye...love is not that...love must be pure...it must be simple...and love shouldn't be judged...sometimes love remains hidden and its better for it to remain so...love may work wonders for some but may also destroy your life...love stories are not those which have a happy ending because invariably they do so, most of the time you have to sacrifice your love for their better so they could be happy but at the same time you must also be thinking if they love you then they wont be any happier if you go away...